Chastity Contracts: Do You Need One with Your Keyholder?

You’re locked up—or thinking about it. You’ve handed over the key, your control, and maybe even your last bit of willpower. But what happens next? What are the rules? Is it just a casual thing, or do you want something more structured?

This is where a chastity contract comes in. It’s not some stiff legal document, and it doesn’t have to be long or complicated. It’s simply a way to set expectations between you and your keyholder so everyone knows what they’re signing up for.

What Should a Chastity Contract Include?

A good chastity contract covers the important stuff—not fluff. Think of it like a kinky roadmap. Here’s what to consider:

• How long will you stay locked? A day? A week? Indefinitely? Will you have check-ins to discuss adjustments?
• Are there any release rules? Is it only for cleaning? Do you earn it? Or is it entirely up to your keyholder’s mood?
• Punishments and rewards. Will there be consequences for begging to be unlocked? Are there ways to earn extra time in or out?
• What happens if there’s an emergency? What’s the backup plan if you need out for health reasons? A spare key hidden somewhere?
• Other kinks or rules. Maybe chastity comes with other expectations—feminization, obedience training, or tasks. This is where you list them.

Do You Really Need a Contract?

Not everyone does. If chastity for you is more about fun and teasing, a contract might feel unnecessary. But if you and your keyholder are serious about it, a contract keeps things clear, fair, and exciting. It removes confusion and adds an extra layer of commitment.

Plus, let’s be honest—signing a chastity contract can be incredibly hot. It turns your submission into something real, something official.

Keep It Flexible (Unless You Love Strict Rules)

A contract shouldn’t feel like a trap. (The cage already does that, right?) It should enhance the experience. If something isn’t working, talk about it. Some people even write contracts with review periods—every month, every three months—to see if the agreement still feels right.

At the end of the day, a chastity contract isn’t about paperwork. It’s about trust, control, and surrender. If it helps make your journey more exciting, go for it. If not, lock up, hand over the key, and let things unfold naturally.

Would you sign one? Or do you prefer to leave it all in your keyholder’s hands?